Losing You
2026
It is very strange how the “me” of the 1969 lover
has changed slowly but surely
to the “me” of the 2026 carer
………………………..
Es muy extraño cómo el “yo” del amante de 1969
ha cambiado lenta pero seguramente hasta convertirse
en el “yo” del cuidador de 2026.
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Same old same old here! Sadly, her decline continues and continence is quite an issue! It’s getting much more difficult for me to manage if I’m honest. I’m beginning to find it hard work … servant … nurse … cook … everything, with no feedback or appreciation.
It amazes me that throughout this whole process of degeneration she has hardly ever shown any awareness of her condition. Even when the specialist told us that she had Alzheimer’s it didn’t seem to get through to her. It doesn’t seem to upset her at all. Better for her- not so good for me
Back then we had seen both our mothers suffer from dementia and she would say “If I ever get like that I would kill myself. The sad irony is that now she doesn’t even know she has it
We used to do the housework together – cleaning, maintenance, gardening. Each of us had things we could rely on the other to do. Now I have to do everything myself. It’s like I’m living on my own – but actually it’s worse than that. It’s everything, then caring for her on top of everything else
She always loved clothes. She had a fantastic clothes sense – style, colours, textures… and matching jewellery. She even used to make her own clothes. Now I pick what she wears every day – even down to her underwear. Sadly lots of her old clothes don’t fit her anymore. She has put on weight, which also would have really upset her. I do my best to make her look as nice as she used to look – but it’s hard
She stopped being the woman that I fell in love with a long time ago. It has happened slowly and progressively, but I almost don’t recognise who she is now . Not so many years ago she was the love of my life – my best friend. We could share anything. Now I can’t share anything with her because she is just not there
And yet…..Sometimes there are little glimpses of how she used to be. I see a brief sparkle in her eyes. I remember the good times when we were a real couple. We laughed. We were like one. We had so much energy. So much potential. What memories….
Peter Banks is an artist and photographer. He explores the potential of photography to make us question what we see and how we see it - the ambiguity that can be used to alter or heighten our interpretation of reality. He aims to create the shock, the surprise, the new way of seeing something that opens up alternative possibilities. He is interested in the relationship between what a photograph is and what it represents. What can be done to a photograph as well as what can be done in it.
He uses life-size photographic images to both cover and reveal their subjects – masking or boxing something in by its own image. He enjoys the ambiguity of photographic space and his work creates tensions between real form and space and a two-dimensional illusion of them.
He explores the idea of photos as the trace that people leave behind them and how photos can punch a hole through a current situation to reveal something of its past. He is intrigued by analysing the ordinary – isolating, ordering, framing, extracting, reflecting – as a way of understanding and affecting the interpretation of its meaning – like a forensic approach to a crime scene.
He believes that how and where you see things affects their meaning and he is keen to explore these possibilities and to access a wider public by developing and showing his work not just in conventional galleries, but also in a range of different public settings.
Peter Banks has exhibited widely in the UK and elsewhere at venues including:
AIR Gallery, Serpentine Gallery, Riverside Studios, Whitechapel Gallery in London; Whitworth Gallery, Peterloo Gallery in Manchester; Impressions Gallery in York; Midland Group in Nottingham; National Museum of Photography, Film And TV in Bradford, ARE in Belfast.
His work has also been displayed at a wide range of public venues, including shopping centres, railway stations, town centres, poster hoardings and derelict buildings.
He has received financial support from Arts Council, major galleries and commercial sponsors, as well as working to private commissions. His work has been featured in national press, specialist art and design journals and on line publications.
Peter Banks is an artist and photographer. He explores the potential of photography to make us question what we see and how we see it - the ambiguity that can be used to alter or heighten our interpretation of reality.
He aims to create the shock, the surprise, the new way of seeing something that opens up alternative possibilities. He is interested in the relationship between what a photograph is and what it represents. What can be done to a photograph as well as what can be done in it.
He uses life-size photographic images to both cover and reveal their subjects – masking or boxing something in by its own image. He enjoys the ambiguity of photographic space and his work creates tensions between real form and space and a two-dimensional illusion of them.
He explores the idea of photos as the trace that people leave behind them and how photos can punch a hole through a current situation to reveal something of its past. He is intrigued by analysing the ordinary – isolating, ordering, framing, extracting, reflecting – as a way of understanding and affecting the interpretation of its meaning – like a forensic approach to a crime scene.
He believes that how and where you see things affects their meaning and he is keen to explore these possibilities and to access a wider public by developing and showing his work not just in conventional galleries, but also in a range of different public settings.
Peter Banks has exhibited widely in the UK and elsewhere at venues including:
AIR Gallery, Serpentine Gallery, Riverside Studios, Whitechapel Gallery in London; Whitworth Gallery, Peterloo Gallery in Manchester; Impressions Gallery in York; Midland Group in Nottingham; National Museum of Photography, Film And TV in Bradford, ARE in Belfast.
His work has also been displayed at a wide range of public venues, including shopping centres, railway stations, town centres, poster hoardings and derelict buildings.
He has received financial support from Arts Council, major galleries and commercial sponsors, as well as working to private commissions. His work has been featured in national press, specialist art and design journals and on line publications.
The website displays current work, along with the ideas and processes that underpin it, as well as acting as a comprehensive archive of past work and its development over time. The home page shows work currently in progress (below) and also features a display of the most recently completed piece (top of page). Previous work is accessed through the main menu. It is arranged chronologically with earlier pieces at the top of the menus and more recent at the bottom.
Some related pieces are grouped together. Most have supporting text and imagery. This includes related sequences of supporting images, videos and a developing record of how the piece evolved during production.
The purpose of the site is not to sell the work, at least not in a literal sense. In fact the majority of the work in Gallery Installations and Public Works no longer exists, other than as a photographic record. It was conceived and realised for a particular location at a particular time and was taken apart and destroyed at the end of that time.
Proposals for new installations, venues and commissions are always welcomed, as are your thoughts on the work displayed on the site.
The website displays current work, along with the ideas and processes that underpin it, as well as acting as a comprehensive archive of past work and its development over time.
The home page shows work currently in progress (below) and also features a display of the most recently completed piece (top of page). Previous work is accessed through the main menu. It is arranged chronologically with earlier pieces at the top of the menus and more recent at the bottom.
Some related pieces are grouped together. Most have supporting text and imagery. This includes related sequences of supporting images, videos and a developing record of how the piece evolved during production.
The purpose of the site is not to sell the work, at least not in a literal sense. In fact the majority of the work in Gallery Installations and Public Works no longer exists, other than as a photographic record. It was conceived and realised for a particular location at a particular time and was taken apart and destroyed at the end of that time.
Proposals for new installations, venues and commissions are always welcomed, as are your thoughts on the work displayed on the site.
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Borrowed Thoughts
In a Japanese garden the term “Shakkei” or “Borrowed Landscape” refers to the view beyond the garden. It is borrowed because it is not owned or controlled by the gardener, but it expands and gives context to the garden.
These thoughts do likewise.
Borrowed Thoughts
In a Japanese garden the term “Shakkei” or “Borrowed Landscape” refers to the view beyond the garden. It is borrowed because it is not owned or controlled by the gardener, but it expands and gives context to the garden. These thoughts do likewise.














